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  1. Piky

    Piky Well-Known Member

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    I'm in a dire need of some help. What do I need help in?
    Finding happiness again.

    Backstory: Warning, don't read if you don't want to get all depressing things.
    A few years ago, I started feeling rather sad, it was very short but not considered 'depression' by any means. A year passed by and it started getting worse. I lost a few in real life friends (no one died) as in contacts, then came in the depressing mood swings. They came in hard as a wave crashing in on a solid rock surface on a stormy night. I went to get it checked out and they told me to take these anti-depressants. Those sorta helped but really screwed up a lot of things.

    Now onto 2016, I lost a few friends, they passed away and meant a lot to me. Now in the present, I've lost most of my sanity and going more mildly insane. I've becoming almost emotionless, any emotions/feelings have become small bumps, nothing more than noticeable bumps. Suicidal thoughts often happen throughout my head. Yes, I am getting some serious help. But what I ask for is, some help. Any type of help, jokes, dark humor, cat pictures, stories, anything that can just help.
     
  2. SoMuchWinning

    SoMuchWinning Well-Known Member

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    Take a break from all social media for a week and do something you enjoy doing. Keep yourself occupied. Posting stuff like this on a dead website won't do much.
     
  3. MR_EVIL_OVERLORD

    MR_EVIL_OVERLORD Elite Legacy Legend | PRO | Genius Super Villain

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    1) Stop the medications, the side effects could really be messing with you.

    2) Firm believer in fitness. My theory is that endorphins cure a lot of these feelings.

    3) Volunteer and help those in need.

    4) Volunteer at a hospital.

    5) Read comic books on your fav characters.

    6) Write short stories.

    7) go to Wet In Wild and check out the hot chicks...

    That's all I got for now.

    PM me bro, I'll look for you in TS.
     
  4. XxPandaLuvxX

    XxPandaLuvxX Active Member

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    NONONO do not do that. At this point his brain is likely used to them so removing them would cause so much chaos. If anything, the dosage must be decreased extremely slowly, but my friend can testify that these side effects that produce these thoughts go down with time.

    Pik, I have an extremely close friend who struggles with very similar issues to you on a day to day basis. Depression, suicidal thoughts, it's all there. Because I know that 2 people on this website know me in real life, I won't even specify their gender out of respect for my close friend. This can be a really tough time for many people, but the important part is to remember that it all gets better eventually. You are bright, funny, shining part of this forum and you always will be. I am confident that you, of all people on this website, can and will make it through this and you will emerge bright and smiling on the other side. You will be okay, and I know that things will work out. I say this with certainty. It sucks a lot now, and so I have seen the immediate and astounding benefits of having someone supportive to talk to. If you ever, ever need anything from me, please let me know. I don't want to claim to know everything, but I have texted this friend of mine so much and we've gotten through so much together, I believe that I can help, if need be. Our entire community is here for you whenever, and I will always be willing to talk to you.

    If you're looking for something amusing, I thought this was quite funny:

    http://twentytwowords.com/heres-how-god-created-animals-according-to-twitter/

    Feel free to talk man, any time!
     
  6. Piky

    Piky Well-Known Member

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    Thank you for that man, anything helps out at this point. The twitter link was quite amusingly funny. I dearly hope your close friend makes it out of it too but thank you so very much for this post.
    I'm sorry I can't write super duper long touchy posts to thank you for.
     
  7. DurationPvP

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    That is terrible. I myself have had thoughts these bad.

    I once thought to myself who cares?
    Even though we all think everyone cares, it doesn't matter.
    Talk to your friends, don't listen to the mean people,
    Live the rest of your life and have ****ing fun
     
  8. DarkTitan_

    DarkTitan_ Ex War and News Manager

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    I'm really sorry about your time in life right now. I have a few friends who struggle with a similar issue. I have only a little bit of consolation. If you can, try to stay busy as much as possible. Read, cook, maybe even write some stories. Board games are fun because they make you think. Exercise, play sports, try to stay in shape. Just keep your mind off wandering and thinking about things that aren't in the moment, or things that aren't real. I know that your problems are real, but I'm talking about thinking about them. Worrying won't do any good. Video games are the best at keeping one's attention occupied. But once you get off them, you feel lonely, or not knowing what to do.

    I have a joke that may give you some joy for that little moment...

    So, the wife of a programmer tells him to go to the store. She says "get 1 loaf a bread and if they have eggs, get a dozen." The programmer went to the store, and came back with 12 loaves of bread.

    I'm here for you if you want to talk <3
     
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  9. MR_EVIL_OVERLORD

    MR_EVIL_OVERLORD Elite Legacy Legend | PRO | Genius Super Villain

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    You might want a second opinion on those meds...
     
  10. Chopo

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    Hey Piky. I just want you to know that we're here for you, stay strong!

    I went through a rather depressing phase last summer. You know what got me through it? Music. Music saved me. I had suicidal thoughts, lost friends, and was feeling really, really lonely. One album specifically brightened me up. I'm not sure this would work for you since you're not me but... what I suggest is doing something that you absolutely love.
     
  11. Dathamier

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    What chopo said above is something I can definitely get behind. Whenever I'm down I use music.
    I would also suggest finding a creative outlet. I discovered dance myself and used that to prevent a depression onset. That might be helpful for you?(Obviously it's not for everyone. Try to find something that feels right).
    I also want you to know that you've got the whole community here behind you. It's an amazing thing, the Internet. You can rely on us if you need some support.
     
  12. TheTitaniumTitan

    TheTitaniumTitan Ex WW JMod and Wiki Team member. Bring back WW!

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    Hey man, I'm really sorry what your going through, tho I have a small logic joke for you.

    A dad asked the Doctor, "So is it a boy or a girl?" the Doctor replied, "Yes."
     
  13. Doges

    Doges Ex-Mod, Ex-Builder

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    If you can, try and force yourself to do some exercise such as a run. It really helps with that bored and icky state.

    Also, post this segment to something like this if you need some further guidance as most people on here wouldn't be able to really help you as much.
     
  14. TheTitaniumTitan

    TheTitaniumTitan Ex WW JMod and Wiki Team member. Bring back WW!

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