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Is Not Having A Social Life... Good?

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by DarSwag, May 25, 2015.

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Should I start socializing?

  1. Yes, or you will be a loner forever

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  2. No, get those A+'s and play games

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  1. DarSwag

    DarSwag Well-Known Member

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    I personally don't have a social life. I have friends but very few and I really don't use social media for anything besides gaming. Let's see what not having social media has gotten me.

    PROS:
    I have so much time to do stuff. People in my school spend hours on their phones texting and **** while I play games and study. Me and my group of nerd friends always get A's or B's while everyone else kind of sucks in school. That's pretty much it.

    CONS:
    I have such a sad life. I have never even CHECKED facebook ever since I got free **** for League using it. Until yesterday. Then I realized almost everybody in my school uses facebook. At earlier points in my life, whatever happened in school stayed in school. Now it's everywhere. EVERYWHERE. Obviously I can still make friends in real life and actually talk to them in school or come to their house or something but damn I just realized how sad my life is.

    So in conclusion being a "loner" has some positives to it but has also caused me to become very sad in life.
     
  2. SoMuchWinning

    SoMuchWinning Well-Known Member

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    Pros:
    You can get laid.

    Cons:
    It's pretty damn difficult to get laid.

    IMHO having a social life improves your life. Not having it will cause difficulties when you are an adult.
     
  3. HauntedGhost

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    i cant stop laughing
     
  4. DarSwag

    DarSwag Well-Known Member

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    I can't either hahahahhahahahahaahahahhhaha.. no stfu.
     
  5. HauntedGhost

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    there is no sympathy left for one whom screams for attention and also acts like a 5 year old.
    honestly you don't deserve a social life.
     
  6. MR_EVIL_OVERLORD

    MR_EVIL_OVERLORD Elite Legacy Legend | PRO | Genius Super Villain

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    Get all A's and B's, go to college, study something that requires math and you'll get a great job.

    The social life will come with time. When you live on your own you can do what you want.

    Then, you can have all the lady friends you want...
     
    #6 MR_EVIL_OVERLORD, May 25, 2015
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  7. DarSwag

    DarSwag Well-Known Member

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    You ARE a 5 year old. Honestly you don't even HAVE a social life. Get over it you immature kid.
     
  8. bassmaster6

    bassmaster6 Well-Known Member

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    Ehh, what you chose should reflect what you want your future to be. If you want to be someone who works with people then get a social life. If you want a job where you don't have to socialize much and be smart then keep doing what you are doing. A balance is key. Also changing social groups could be difficult because people already know you as who you were and may not accept who you have become.
     
  9. MR_EVIL_OVERLORD

    MR_EVIL_OVERLORD Elite Legacy Legend | PRO | Genius Super Villain

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    Take your time. I had a job as a lifeguard in High school, that is a great way to develop a social network and make friends. Playing sports is great too.

    I was a Nock - Nerd Jock and I turned out great. You will too.

    Don't follow the pack make your own way based on your goals and dreams.
     
  10. DreadfulDNA

    DreadfulDNA Well Known Member

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    I would try to be more social, I'm very introverted but recently I've stepped out of my shell a tad, and I've seen improvements in my life, however I already had a social life to start with, I just became more social. As for balance I am currently a 4.0 student, while playing track and lacrosse, I'm actually going to county's for track, it's just all about scheduling for me.
     
  11. Gohabsgo

    Gohabsgo Well-Known Member

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    It's all about balance
     
  12. RezIsStupid

    RezIsStupid Well-Known Member

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    Join a sport or a club. Alternatively, you could try talking to a few new people at school. You never know, you might suddenly become best buddies.

    However, if you choose to spend more time with friends or/and join a sport, make sure you devote time that you would otherwise use to play games. Your grades shouldn't have to suffer. Especially since you are such a good student, and capable of achiveing a top notch job in the future.
     
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  13. TheSinisterOne

    TheSinisterOne Goodbye

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    It isn't really hard to be social and to have good grades. Just keep studying and be friendly and chill to everyone in your school.
     
  14. MemeGodKevin

    MemeGodKevin Well-Known Member

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    Well, if you have a good core group of friends, you do not need to be social with anyone else. I have 6 friends who i hang out with and that is it. and i am fine with that. Yes I will talk to other people in my class, but that core is who i always hang out with, and i am very happy
     
  15. Afid

    Afid Well-Known Member

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    Honestly you should stop acting like a dick,sir.
     
  16. Paul

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    Everything you said is super untrue.
     
  17. HauntedGhost

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    And this is why you shouldn't have a social life. When "poor" DarSwag has something do wrong in his perfect world, he explodes. I have a social life. I have lots of friends. Basically the only people whom I'm not friends with are douches, like you. Am I really immature? I could've gotten mod for quite a while back in 2014, while you sat there planning ways to attention ***** and act like the most immature kid ever.
     
  18. Nxy

    Nxy Just another birb

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    I say its good and bad..... and well...... Considering i'm still here after 3 years shows you my life..... It's really bad for me at times.. ._. Also you become a really antisocial person, or you become rude, or you can be nice and friendly. people can choose to see one side or the other. Sometimes I think even my friends like making me mad 24/7....*Cough* @Ritzy trying to make me think i was going to time out and also getting the rest of the channel to remain silent while i kept saying "hello?" "Anyone there?".. *Cough* Though, considering 80% the people in my school don't know I exist, or they know I exist but Pretend they don't know.......... I do have my pluses for here...

    Pros:

    • People, people and people! I get to meet new friends and new personalities.
    • Getting good grades.... (Ish)
    • and getting some skill on the computer. (Totally going to get me somewhere, right?)
    • Proving people wrong about a game....
    • liking to read... (Form posts, peoples rants, books, etc.)
    • Someone asks for your Instagram and you magically have it along with just about every other social website.
    • and that's about it....... :frowning:

    Cons:
    • People, people and people! -some can be really annoying....
    • that moment you realize you're getting left out in just about EVERYTHING.
    • "You play a minecraft server?" comments
    • The ability to procrastinate. <----- Ah yes. My best friend.
    • Becomming a nerd on game facts and gaming devices.
    • Having the sudden interest to read and having everyone look at you like you're an alien.
    • Missing out on your crushes party. Only because you're yelling at people on a teamspeak server! +1
    • Getting a weird taste in music...
    And yeah. That's about it for my life. R.I.P
     
  19. DarSwag

    DarSwag Well-Known Member

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    Your voice sounds like a 7 year olds. We all know who you are RLH.
     
  20. HauntedGhost

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    oh wow you know im RLH, so does everyone else. You're younger than me and you're making fun of the fact that i hit puberty late? The irony is strong here.
     
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