Question to anyone

In a way I have this situation with one of them. One of friends is the nicest person in the grade, but as I became friends with him, he really wasn't as nice, ya he's still nicer than me, but still.

Anyways, why does it matter? Ya you say it's about loosing friends, but what about it? If you don't want to be their friend just say it.

 

Friends are really weird topics to be honest.. You have those friends that you KNOW you can trust, and that will be there for you for anything. They'll be great, nice, funny, and you guys occasionally fight but you know they will be there for you..

Many people could seem nicer than they truly are. It's just how we work. You may seem EXTREMELY nice in the beginning, then you become a lot closer with someone, and you may not be what you seemed to be on their first impression of you.

 

I've never had that happen, although that's pretty much entirely because all of my friends and I are openly assholes to eachother for the most part.

It's all in jest, but it's easier when you can relate to people even when they're being rude because the worst they can ever be is pretty much more of the same.

Basically, if you can't be friends with them when they drop a facade, it's not worth the trouble of fretting over them because you weren't really friends with them, but with the face they presented, ya' know?

 

Usually when people are being fake nice to you its because they want your money.