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Advise for Depression or Any emotional issues.

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  1. MiloAnderson

    MiloAnderson Active Member

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    Hello I am MiloAnderson a girl who went through three years of depression. I went partially insane for some parts of my life but got out of it, and I want to help those who have the same issue as I did. I know depression and negative emotions from top to bottom so don't be afraid to tell me, everyone on brawl to me is family. I have dealt with bullies, self-harm, and depression most of my life. I know what it feels like to hit rock bottom and believe me it is the opposite of heaven. I want to help people who feel the same way. Feel free to leave a story or comment down below about a issue or hard time your going through, I will respond as soon as possible. :grinning:
     
    #1 MiloAnderson, Jun 7, 2016
  2. Piky

    Piky Well-Known Member

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    I often deal with depression, at points even a simple 'Hello' from a friend means a lot. It's rough, I'm often emotionless with little regard for my own safety at times. Sometimes, just talking to a friend or someone helps the most. I'm really happy though that you're wanting to help people with depression/emotional issues.
     
    #2 Piky, Jun 7, 2016
  3. MiloAnderson

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    Yeah I can see where you coming from it is hard to deal with something like that. I hated the feeling of being alone and being constantly hurt and just imaging someone else going through that makes me feel the need to help them. :grinning:
     
    #3 MiloAnderson, Jun 7, 2016
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    Eso Blow My High (Members Only)

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    Just be happy, I know it sounds kinda cliche in the way were it's easier said than done, but honestly just be you. If people aren't accepting that is there problem, because they need to make fun of other people in order to feel happy. You know I go through a lot to with school, friends, social life etc... And I'm not the most popular or outgoing person. My grades aren't the best I'm not the most social or 'fun' person to talk to but I accept that. Idc I surround myself with people that I have fun around, I accept my flaws and I work at them everyday and try to enjoy life. Life is such a gift you're only here for so long. Do you really want to be sad about things that you can change if you work at them, and even if you can't there is always someone out there that will help you with your problems, you just need to find them and allow them to Help you. Even if it's on a video game forum it just goes to show how kind someone will be to a complete stranger, and shows people out there care about you.

    And anyone contemplating self-harm or even suicide I leave you with advice my dad has told me since I was a kid; suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Everything gets better, you just have to fight through the pain and always remember you're never alone. Life is such a gift from God, don't waste it, because there is always someone who will love you.

    And that's why I love this post, @MiloAnderson you're doing a great job!!
     
    #4 Eso, Jun 7, 2016
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    I agree with you one hundred percent! Thank you for such a kind complement it really means a lot! Suicide is a really big issue with people online and in school it is usually circling around bullying. You are right about bullying and everything else mentioned.
     
    #5 MiloAnderson, Jun 7, 2016
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    This hits home deeply. I'm not proud of what I've done but still getting through it. Time & effort, a lot of time. With time, comes with friends & having fun together. The thought of talking among a group and having fun is like the best medicine.
    You're doing an awesome job of helping @MiloAnderson c:
     
    #6 Piky, Jun 7, 2016
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    featherpaw Your friendly neighborhood kitten! :3

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    This is a very inspirational post and will help a lot of people. As piky said, even a hello can help brighten someone's day. Life is tough sometimes, but it gets better. Thank you for writing this.
     
    #7 featherpaw, Jun 8, 2016
  8. MiloAnderson

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    Thank you that means a lot to me! I am glad I inspired you @_Featherpaw_ and Piky I think the best way to solve your kind of depression is just to hang out and talk with your friends. That is how my problem was solved. I hope you feel better Piky
     
    #8 MiloAnderson, Jun 8, 2016
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    Just came past this video and remembered seeing this thread:

    He takes a hot minute to get his point across, but maybe it'll someone here
     
    #9 chickenputty, Jun 11, 2016
  10. MiloAnderson

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    This video has a very great point! Thanks for sharing it with me @chickenputty

    I have read your thread and I am very sorry for your loss. It is very hard to lose someone you care about deeply, I have to deal with the horrific past of my family and losing my uncle to cancer. It was very hard to deal with but I got through it with some help. You are welcome anytime to talk to me or ask for help. Try to be as strong as you can and never forget to look at the future. Your friends would not want you to be depressed and unhappy, they would want you to see the good in life and move on like the beautiful and strong person you are. Keep positive and never forget you are beautiful, kind, and loving and people look up to you. You did all you could for your friends and that was to be by their side when they were alive. Be happy and be you.

    ~MiloAnderson
     
    #10 MiloAnderson, Jun 11, 2016
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