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  1. DarSwag

    DarSwag Well-Known Member

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    I am really getting bullied, in school and online. I can handle online bullying because I can just delete my facebook and make a new one, but irl bullying is harder to cope with. It's been happening to me since I was in 3rd grade until now. I haven't been noticing it too much, but the last few years, people keep beating the crap out of me and calling me horrible things. Some guy even put thumbtacks on my chair. I've been getting around it a little easier these years, but not really. I've been doing things like ignoring them, which doesn't work because they beat the crap out of me. I don't want to move because that will make it worse. Suicide is not really an option because my family would go crazy and just break down completely. Please, help me to handle this, it would be much appreciated. Thank you.
     
  2. Rainys

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    Do you know why they are bullying you?
     
  3. TheBoyGenius510

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    Ya know, there is this thing called "parents".
    You know, those people that have been with you since you were born?
     
  4. DarSwag

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    They are bullying me because of my race, to make me feel bad, and to get rid of me.
     
  5. TheBoyGenius510

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    Talk to your parents
    Have you tried that
     
  6. Rainys

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    I see...
    Well, if you move, it might not get even worse. Thought it depends on where you move to.
    Tell higher officials about this. If it continues, you may end up in the same situation as several other people bullied. It is not a good idea to let bullying continue.
     
  7. Sonicluke2000

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    Indeed.
    #rainy4mod2014
     
  8. Darkchaosknight

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  9. DarSwag

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    They would make me move. End of story.
     
  10. TheBoyGenius510

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    How do you know that
    Or talk to a teacher/counselor in your school
     
  11. Arkrex

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    I used to be bullied for being Hispanic, but it slowly passed over. My best advice is to seek help from parents or other adults, don't be scared!
    Kind of corrupt that we get bullied for being different.
     
  12. Rainys

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    Do you not want to move?
     
  13. Mokolee

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    Ignore. Them. If it gets any worse, call the police to arrest them and have them legally executed or something.
     
  14. MrCowlick

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    I would suggest, either talking to you're parents, or maybe talking to the police. The same kind of thing has happened to me, and I got the police involved and they sorted the problem. Another thing, get you're friends to stand up for you. If they can't or won't, then they are no true friends. If you try all of these options and none of them work, then you can come and talk to me. I am always here if you're going through tough times, or if you just need someone to talk to.
    Just one thing, PLEASE don't kill you're-self. I enjoy you're company too much, and I would probably cry myself of you died!
    Keep strong brother. Mrcowlick.
     
  15. BBSlayer5150

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    An adult is probably your best bet at solving the problem. I would talk about this with a person you trust the most, maybe your uncle, grandfather, best friend, whoever. Run it by your parents, tell them how you feel. Even telling the teachers to do something could help. If they get detentions for a long time, and they continue to bully you, they could get suspended or even expelled. I don;t know if you go to a public or private school, so I can;t tell you what I would do. But if I ever saw you IRL getting picked on, I would come over there defend you. I do not care if I break an arm or something, I can't stand bullying. Life will eventually get better, trust me. If are in elementary school, I would recommend going to a high school where they won't go. As cowlick said, the police could help substantially. Keep your head held high, always.
     
  16. MrCowlick

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    I agree. If I saw you, or anyone else being bullied I wouldn't stand for it. I once defended someone, and ended up getting severely hurt in the process. I am always here for you, and so are all the other members on the servers. I hop that you're situation improves, and I wish you all the best.
     
  17. Darkchaosknight

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    Just leaving one of my favorite quotes
    "Others bring others down to make themselves feel better"
    To explain this quote, I will take your example.
    I will call you Jake and the bully Andrew.
    Andrew was picked on by his older brother as a little kid. Since then, he has always felt belittled by his brother. Today, he sees you on the play ground and thinks, that little guy over there looks so happy, why can't I be happy! Now Andrew will walk over to Jake and rough him up a bit to lower Jake. Jake is going to feel sad now. Andrew now feels because Jake is as low/lower than him, whenever Andrew feels bad about himself, he can think about you.

    My advice for you is to ignore him and don't respond. This doesn't mean go into silent mode but make it so the bully feels no enjoyment or redemption out of hurting you. When a bully goes after you, he wants you to react so he feels enjoyment or satisfaction. Giving him none generally works. Andrew extremely quietly walked towards the cookie jar. HOWEVER if the bully keeps it up until you give up, YOU MUST SEE AN ADULT/RELATIVE/GRANDPARENT/TEACHER. Sibling generally aren't the best either so I won't try it. I don't care if they say your the little *****y on the play ground, do it. If you don't, you may fight back which is the worst thing you can do. To a bully, this means that you have bit the hook and can be reeled in.

    This is all I can say on this VERY important topic.
     
  18. Shayne

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    I probably cant top any of the others above me but just mainly tell your parents or school staff or even your principal. Realize that these people are only going to be in your life until you are done with school or you switch into a different one. They will have nothing to do with you after that
     
  19. BallingMC

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    Well i told my mom when i was little and that worked in elementary school. But talk to your guidance councilor he or she can help you.
     
  20. DrZRG

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    This won't help you, BUT when I got made fun of for my first pimple, I SHARKEISHA'd the kid. He's never talked to me since :smile: Anyways, DONT KILL YOURSELF. The best ways to deal with this stuff is to get help. Don't just let it happen to you. Here is MY way: BEAT THEIR ASS
    Here is a logical way: Talk to them, ask them questions, just so they forget they are bullying you. Hope I helped!
     
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