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Discussion in 'Discussion' started by Brendoom, Jun 19, 2018.

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  1. Brendoom

    Brendoom Well-Known Member

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    Well, after a long break after leaving this post doesn't claim my return, infact far from it.

    Over the past months since i've left there is one thing I keep seeing happen which I will talk about. Firstly, I am not going to sit here and be insulted by some players again as I know some are guilty of doing that. So I'm not listening to them.
    The ones i'm talking to, are those I know have it in them to show compassion, kindness and honesty. I've taken a road to understanding, now some of you will quote what I said in the past years i've been here and to be honest, move on from it. The world keeps on turning, life goes on. I've insulted people, i've dehumanized people and said horrible things. But I did something about it. I changed it for the better. I know you all can here too.

    So all I can say is, stop the jokes... stop the "cool guy on the server" for a moment and look at what you say to people. You are all one thing in common.. all of us.. we are human. Humans who wander the earth finding where we belong.
    This bullying that I see time and time again, the insults and the disgraceful disregard for each other is something I don't stand for, ever. Which is one of the reasons I left was, too many people were being dishonest and unkind.

    I'm no hero and i'm no savior. I believe there is hope in every single one of you. I know you all have compassion somewhere.

    Respect is covered massively and is overlooked by many. If you dislike someone, you still treat them with respect. Name calling someone else because they called you a name doesn't make it right, you don't stoop to that level, you have to be better than that.

    So weather you take something away here or choose to ignore it, that is your burden to bare in the future. I know many of my bullies at school regret what they said to me, honestly, they do.

    Be kind everyone, show that you can be supportive and the world will be supportive back.

    Thank you.
     
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    #1 Brendoom, Jun 19, 2018
  2. 0racle

    0racle Former Raid and Reports Manager

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    Good message. It's always a good thing to try to turn things around - don't let your mistakes hold you down and "set" who you are in stone. Just think that some people need to hear this in order to change, sort of speaking from experience myself.
     
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  3. DeadRhos

    DeadRhos Minimum Brain Size

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    Welcome back :wink:

    I agree with the sentiment, but show it through your actions, not your words. People don't change that easily.

     
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    #3 DeadRhos, Jun 19, 2018
  4. iamdroone

    iamdroone returned

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    I guess being kind is the key to almost everything in life right?
     
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    #4 iamdroone, Jun 19, 2018
  5. Lekosa1

    Lekosa1 mineman

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    hecking left blaming the society instead of fixing their own problems :thinking:

    welcome back regardless
     
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    #5 Lekosa1, Jun 20, 2018
  6. Brendoom

    Brendoom Well-Known Member

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    Yes, definitely agree here. I would like to show what my actions did for me to change.
     
    #6 Brendoom, Jun 20, 2018
  7. Mr_BlueSheep

    Mr_BlueSheep [Professional Sheep since 2012]

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    Welcome back!
     
    #7 Mr_BlueSheep, Jun 20, 2018
  8. TooMuchSkill4You

    TooMuchSkill4You New Member

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    Honestly, it'd be great if everybody could just be kind and not be rude or disrespectful, but that is not the world we live in. You're always going to have people arguing, being rude, etc. and there's really not much we can do about it. Not everybody enjoys to just be nice, which is why you have probably made this thread. Unrealistic for this to happen though, seeing as there will always just be those people. For people who want to make a change though, it has to be shown through actions, and not verbal actions. It's very nice of you though that you've created a thread with positive intention, but it's not like everybody can/will stop with the rudeness. We as people just have to learn to ignore whoever shall ruin our days, or just be unkind. I'm pretty sure though you are always available to make a report yourself, or find staff members to mute the people that spread negativity throughout the server. I know this is kind of a weird response, but maybe just take some of these things in mind. Anyway, heart in the right place, but unrealistic, (No offence throughout this reply, not trying to spread any hate towards anybody). -Skill
     
    #8 TooMuchSkill4You, Jun 21, 2018
  9. Brendoom

    Brendoom Well-Known Member

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    In my time, i've shown passion and kindness, just others havn't shown that with me. Alas... you're right. I know. People can be kind... will they? No. Not all.
     
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    #9 Brendoom, Jun 22, 2018
  10. EmperorTrump45

    EmperorTrump45 Dank Memer

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    in what universe
     
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    #10 EmperorTrump45, Jun 22, 2018
  11. SoCool21

    SoCool21 Bans Reports & Appeals Admin | McPvPer for Life <3

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    As great as this notion is, it's not going to achieve anything other than make the situation worse. Trolls will see this thread and laugh at it and completely ignore what you're trying to say.

    Trolls feed on reactions (such as this thread) - don't give them reactions and they'll get bored and go find some other group of people to annoy.
     
    #11 SoCool21, Jun 23, 2018
  12. Charlie_0014

    Charlie_0014 Build & BT Overlord, Party Sub-Overlord

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    Thank you, good thread.
     
    #12 Charlie_0014, Jun 23, 2018
  13. Brendoom

    Brendoom Well-Known Member

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    Was there a reaction from me from this post?

    I don't expect them who I could name to follow this thread, I expect nothing from them. I would rather not waste time typing things.. for the bullies. This was for you guys. :wink:
     
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    #13 Brendoom, Jun 27, 2018
  14. monst3rman1ac

    monst3rman1ac Ok hi

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    This is overall a very meaningful post. Thank you for reminding the community of whats right. :smile:
     
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    #14 monst3rman1ac, Jun 28, 2018
  15. JudeK1

    JudeK1 Member

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    Yes, I agree with this post. Brawl isn't to get good at the games it is simply to have fun but people being disrespectful to others makes having fun extremely hard when they are being disrespected. I have noticed that players in MC-WAR will show more respect to the better players on the server than an inexperienced player. I am not saying that players will get all the respect, you do have to earn respect but being a friendly optimistic person is deserving of my respect completely not by being good at the game.
     
    #15 JudeK1, Jun 29, 2018
  16. Kayrex

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    As TooMuchSkill4U stated,
    there are some «toxic» and rude players out there, which you, me nor any of the players on brawl are capable of changing.

    although it would be nice if everyone just stayed nice n stuff, it’s basically impossible to make them changer their personality.

    As TooMuchSkill4U stated,
    there are some «toxic» and rude players out there, which you, me nor any of the players on brawl are capable of changing.

    although it would be nice if everyone just stayed nice n stuff, it’s basically impossible to make them changer their personality.
     
    #16 Kayrex, Jun 29, 2018
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