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Discussion in 'Away' started by SoCool21, Apr 12, 2018.

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  1. SoCool21

    SoCool21 Bans Reports & Appeals Admin | McPvPer for Life <3

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    Quite a lot of this is venting so I apologise in advance if you don't care.

    In short. My girlfriend inherited some money after her grandfather passed, she was pressured into giving it to her parents (who didn't get much), and refused. Her parents were still able to get the money due to some legal stuff I don't understand, and due to very bad aggression at home she is now homeless. I've also recently been informed that my company is getting rid of most apprentices to cut costs, so there's a pretty good chance I'll be made redundant soon so I'll be doing very bad financially. All this has happened in the last 24 hours. And because e-detectives are the best kind of people: no, she can't move in with me, she lives in a different country, my parents would probably never allow it (considering they don't even know I'm still with her and disapproved the whole thing when it started). And no, I'm not going in to more detail. This all probably sounds like some teenager ranting on Facebook to try and get acceptance. Sorry about how petty it'll sound, I just don't want people to think I went away for no reason.

    I need some time away from Brawl to figure out what the hell I'm going to do, simple as that. Need to focus on trying to find another job. I will be back, in about a month's time. I'll be around on forums a little bit, and will still be on Discord just not in as many chats (probably won't speak to too many people though, I can get pretty snappy at people when I go through these dumb mood swings). I will try to manage HG and WW best I can during this time as well as do the reports and appeals, but won't be in-game at all. Sorry.
     
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  2. MoistMayonnaise

    MoistMayonnaise Highly Established Member

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    Take care SoCool, I hope that everything returns to normal and that you can come back soon.
     
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    #2 MoistMayonnaise, Apr 12, 2018
  3. redslime

    redslime Lead Developer

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    good luck man
     
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    #3 redslime, Apr 12, 2018
  4. FlagRecovered

    FlagRecovered Active Member

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    Take all the time you need and good luck with your situation, I hope all goes well in the end. I know you still want to help Brawl by any means possible but you should just disregard everything as a whole just so you can hopefully come back faster and give this situation your entire attention.

    :heart::heart:
     
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    #4 FlagRecovered, Apr 12, 2018
  5. xGhale

    xGhale HG‘s Doom guy

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    Yikes...
    Good luck sir! You deserve the best in life, don't let it get you down.
    I expect some HG changes when you return c:

    -Sam
     
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    #5 xGhale, Apr 12, 2018
  6. 0racle

    0racle Former Raid and Reports Manager

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    Damn sounds rough. Just try to keep your head up throughout it all, things will sort themselves out eventually. Good luck man, cya soon hopefully.
     
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    #6 0racle, Apr 12, 2018
  7. Charlie_0014

    Charlie_0014 Build & BT Overlord, Party Sub-Overlord

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    That's tough, hope stuff starts going in your favor.
     
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    #7 Charlie_0014, Apr 12, 2018
  8. NickManEA

    NickManEA Build JMOD

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    I hope life turns out well and luck falls on your side.
     
    #8 NickManEA, Apr 12, 2018
  9. GalaThundR

    GalaThundR Mcpvp Veteran

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    All I can say is good luck. I hope everything goes well for both of you.
     
    #9 GalaThundR, Apr 12, 2018
  10. Versions

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    good luck man, cya soon hopefully
     
    #10 Versions, Apr 12, 2018
  11. Droiid

    Droiid Shutdown

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    damn man. **** happens to the best of us. i hope things resolve for you and it becomes slightly normal again. hmu if you ever need to, you know where i am
     
    #11 Droiid, Apr 12, 2018
  12. AnonymousGalaxy

    AnonymousGalaxy Raid Manager | Manager of Managing | Legacy

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    Take care man, life comes first. Take your time and PM me if there's absolutely anything I can do for you. Good luck, I hope you can comeback soon.
     
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    #12 AnonymousGalaxy, Apr 12, 2018
  13. GetShadowRealmed

    GetShadowRealmed What do I put here

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    Kind of a ****ty way for her parents to act. No parents should kick out their own child because they wouldn't give them money they don't have a right to. Also sucks to hear about the job. Good luck, things were improving a lot with you being promoted.
     
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  14. Snail_5_

    Snail_5_ Switched Accounts "Phobia"

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    Hope everything turns out for the best, see ya soon :c
     
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  15. StrikerSly

    StrikerSly Well-Known Member

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    Money ruins us as people, and destroys families.
     
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    #15 StrikerSly, Apr 13, 2018
  16. Theo92160_

    Theo92160_ Worldedit's axe > Guns > Swords

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    Sad to hear about this hard situation for you two.. Hope everything goes better soon.

    Yeah, money turns people into what they really are, in a good or bad way.
     
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  17. Carnotauros

    Carnotauros Raid & Events Manager

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    Good luck Tom. Hope the best for both of you!
     
    #17 Carnotauros, Apr 13, 2018
  18. Andrwe

    Andrwe Well-Known Member

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    I can see why you were worried about sounding "like some teenager ranting on Facebook", it's to be expected from an online community, but you always come across as mature and authentic. I genuinely hope things flip back upright for you soon, you know you've got the support of many many people here, so stick around when things allow!
     
    #18 Andrwe, Apr 13, 2018
  19. Usp45

    Usp45 Well-Known Member

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    "HES INACTIVE STAFF DEMOTE HIM REEEEEEEE"

    good job putting life over minecraft remember this is really not important at all
     
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    #19 Usp45, Apr 13, 2018
  20. StrikerSly

    StrikerSly Well-Known Member

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    There should never be a "not" in between minecraft and important.... NEVER
     
    #20 StrikerSly, Apr 13, 2018
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